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A flat in the evening: one partner sits writing in a notebook at the table while the other fills the kettle behind her, each doing their own thing in the same room
Two people sitting side by side at a table, both reading the same open notebook, one pointing at a line on the page
An open notebook filled with handwriting on a wooden table, a pen resting in the fold and two empty mugs beside it

The wedding is planned. The marriage isn’t.

Ten guided conversations for two people about to marry — answered on your own, talked through together, finished before the day itself.

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Ten conversations · in order

The subjects most couples skip.

The questions in each chapter

  1. A mug, loose coins and unopened envelopes left on a kitchen table
     01

    Money

    Who earns, who decides, and what you owe.

    Free · now
  2. Framed family photographs crowded together on a shelf
     02

    Family

    Two families, one household, clear lines.

  3. Two cold mugs left at opposite ends of a table, both chairs pushed back
     03

    Conflict

    How you argue, and how you repair.

  4. A work bag and lanyard dumped on a chair by the front door
     04

    Careers

    Ambition, moves, and whose turn it is.

  5. Two sets of keys on hooks beside a half-unpacked box
     05

    Home

    Where you live, and what you keep.

  6. Plates and glasses left on a low table after friends have gone
     06

    Friendships

    Time together, and time apart.

  7. The corner of an unmade bed with a book left face down
     07

    Intimacy

    Closeness, honestly and without a script.

  8. An empty third chair at a table set for two
     08

    Children

    The question of them, asked plainly.

  9. A small oil lamp lit on a shelf beside dried marigold petals
     09

    Faith

    Belief, ritual, and the everyday.

  10. A wall calendar with most of its squares still empty
     10

    The first year

    Rehearsed before you live it.

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The wedding plans a day. Prevow plans the marriage.

Guided, not graded
Each chapter opens a subject with real questions in a fixed order. Nothing is measured or graded — what you write is only ever for the two of you.
Answered in private
You each write on your own. Neither of you sees a word the other wrote until you both have — the app holds it until then.
Paced to the date
Ten conversations in a fixed order, spaced across the weeks you have left — not crammed into one anxious evening.

Ten honest conversations, finished before you stand up in front of everyone.

How the programme works

Every conversation ends in one line you both agree to.

Ten lines become a Vowbook you return to long after the day
A couple having a private conversation together at home
We planned the wedding for a year and never once talked about money. Prevow made us — and it turned out we agreed on more than we feared.
Aanya & David · married four months after finishing the ten chapters

Questions couples ask.

Do we have to agree on everything?
No. The point is to find out where you already agree and where you do not, while there is still time to talk about it. A chapter is finished when you have written one line you both accept — not when you have the same answer.
Do we each need the app?
Yes. You each answer privately on your own device, and the app brings both sets of answers together for the conversation. That private-first step is the whole point.
How long does it take?
About twenty minutes each to answer a chapter, plus a conversation whenever it suits you. The ten are paced across the weeks before your date, so nothing is crammed.
What does it cost?
Chapter one is free, in full. The rest unlock as a single one-time purchase, and the current price is shown in the app before you buy anything.

Chapter one is free

Start the first conversation tonight.

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