Conflict and how you repair.
Not whether you argue. How it ends. What each of you needs in the hour afterwards, written down while nothing is wrong.
What this chapter asks.
This is placeholder text. The finished page explains what the chapter opens with, why it sits at this point in the ten, and what changes between the answer you write on your own and the conversation you have once both of you are done.
It also says plainly what Prevow does not do here: nothing is ranked, nothing is summed up, and neither of you is told what the answers mean. You read them side by side and decide that yourselves.
You leave chapter three with your repair plan.
Answered on your own, first.
- How do you know when I have stopped listening?
- What ends an argument for you — and what only pauses it?
- Who apologised first in your family, and did it work?